Have you and your girlfriend recently split up?  Do you daydream wishing you could get your ex girlfriend back?  Where do you begin as this is a touchy situation.  Both of you hurt and saying or doing the wrong thing could end your hopes forever.

Assuming she broke up with you, try and find her reason for splitting up even if you are not sure right now.  Discovering her reason can lead you to honestly determine if your break up could have been prevented and how you can make everything right.

If her reason was entirely your fault, be honest with her and admit you were at fault.  Be as open and truthful as you can, showing her you care very much about her feelings.  Admitting you are wrong shows her your intentions and may lead to more open communication.

Try not to hide away from the world while trying to get your ex girlfriend back.  Go out and have some fun.  Go to concerts, see movies, or just hang out with friends.  Keep your life moving forward and try not to focus on the past.

By showing her you are moving on but still care about her, she may view you in a different light.  She will appreciate your confidence and may confide in you since you both have remained friends.  Keep working to remain friends as this builds trust and bring you closer to each other.

Finally when you feel the time is right, you can casually ask her why the two of you split up.  Her answer will reveal which steps you have to take to get your ex girlfriend back or just remain friends.

Obviously, these steps are just an outline for you to follow to win your ex back.  When I lost my true love I stumbled across a gentleman named T ‘Dub” Jackson who authored a simple step by step plan called “The Magic of Making Up.”  His down to earth style worked like magic for us and we are still very much in love.